Dad who died in Las Vegas house fire was devoted to African communities, leader says
The patriarch of a close-knit family who died in an Oct. 24 fire, along with his brother and two of his children, was an important figure in the Eritrean and Ethiopian communities, a community leader said.
Girma Zaid, an interpreter and document preparer who helps people with immigration cases, said Abdul Adem was “so Americanized” but also cared about helping Eritreans and Ethiopians.
Zaid, 76, said he had talked to Adem about becoming the kind of community leader he currently is, something Adem was willing to do.
“We had the same vision, mission and passion to help out the community,” he told the Las Vegas Review-Journal on Thursday. “And I want to be his mouthpiece now that my friend is no longer with me.”
Abdusalem Adem, who was known to his family and friends as Abdul, his brother Ibrahim Adem and his children Anaya and Aaliyah Adem died in the morning fire at their southwest Las Vegas home, according to the Clark County coroner’s office.
Adem’s wife, Senait, and young son Amani survived by jumping out a third-floor window, according to a GoFundMe page for the family. On Friday, the woman’s brother-in-law called her a hero.
Seeking better lives
The Adems emigrated from the East African country of Eritrea in the early 1990s with their mother, seeking better lives, Awet Adem told the Review-Journal last week. Abdul and Ibrahim Adem were his brothers.
Abdul Adem worked as a Cox Communications sales director, according to LinkedIn.
“We have all endured a great loss – Abdul was an amazing leader for our organization and a good friend,” Kristine Hedlund, director of new development at Cox, said in an email.
Zaid said he met Abdul Adem a few years ago while assisting his mother-in-law with her immigration process. He said he also helped Senait Adem with her green card process.
Before the fire, Zaid said, he was working to help Senait Adem’s sister come from Sweden for a visit, but she couldn’t make the trip because her passport was expired.
“Had I had that passport, she would’ve been there, and she would’ve been one of the victims,” he said.
Work in the community
Only about two weeks ago, Zaid said, Abdul Adem was talking about doing something to help troubled teens lost to social media and gang violence. Abdul Adem and Zaid wanted to educate the community about the legal system and parenting, Zaid said.
They wanted to address mental health issues in the Las Vegas Ethiopian and Eritrean communities, which lost eight people to suicide last year, according to Zaid.
Berhane Haile, secretary of the Holy Trinity Eritrean Orthodox Tewahdo Church, said Abdul Adem wanted there to be a strong community and “had a lot of plans.” He believed adults had a responsibility to shape young people and valued education, according to Haile.
He was also generous.
When a new priest arrived, Abdul Adem bought furniture for him and paid his internet bill, Haile said.
Abdul Adem also was passionate about helping the children of immigrants, Zaid said.
“Abdul as a father was Superman, as far as I’m concerned,” he said. “He set an example.”
“Not only did he take care of his family, but the entire community was his family as far as I’m concerned, because he did take care of underprivileged kids, particularly children of single moms,” Zaid added.
Abdul Adem coached basketball and was good at engaging kids through the sport, according to Zaid, who recalled one child at a basketball clinic saying, “I want to be like Abdul.”
Zaid said he thinks their plans for helping teens will move forward, despite Abdul Adem’s death. He’d like to create a foundation to fulfill the man’s dreams of helping the community.
His “spirit is not dead, has not died,” Zaid said. “In fact, it’s rekindling my passion to continue on.”
‘Guilt of survival’
Since the fire, Zaid has tried to support the Adem family.
Senait Adem has “guilt of survival” and is trying to process the loss she’s experienced, he said.
“I told her that she has to live for this 5-year-old,” her son Amani, he said. Zaid said the boy was injured by the jump from the house.
Haile said Senait Adem is devoted to her husband. She mostly talks about him, about how hard-working he is and how much he helps her, he said.
Since the fire, Haile said, he’s been helping to organize the Adems’ funeral and working to keep the community informed. The community’s pain is deep, he said, and so is his.
“We can’t believe it,” he said.
Zaid said he’s also been helping the family with funeral plans. According to the GoFundMe page, there will be a service on Thursday at Central Church in Henderson, followed by a burial service at Palm Eastern Mortuary and Cemetery.
Senait Adem has told him what she remembers about the fire, Zaid said. Abdul Adem was returning from an out of town trip, he said, but she fell asleep before he returned.
“Next thing you know, she smelled the smoke,” he said. She grabbed her 5-year-old and jumped out the window, falling onto the air conditioner unit. Before she could go back, he said, the house was “engulfed with fire.”
“I said to her, ‘Senait, how did you survive it?’” he said. “And she said, ‘Girma, it must’ve been the angels. I just flew with my 5-year-old, holding him. That’s all I remember.’”
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